Hey
guys, before you make that proposal find time to read this; If you’re
thinking of asking your girlfriend to become your wife, deciding if
you’re ready to make the commitment to marriage is only half the battle.
You have to be absolutely sure that the woman in your life is someone
you’ll be happy spending time with day in and day out. Love alone is not
enough to make a marriage work, and certain characteristics are warning
signs for a troubled marriage down the road. Here are some of the most
obvious signs that your girlfriend is not marriage material. Continue
below;
1. She cuts you off from loved ones
A
girlfriend who always becomes sick when it's time to spend quality time
with your family and even forbids you from hanging out with your
friends will only act worse after you say your vows.
2.
She bails on you when times get toughLife isn’t always a bowl of
cherries, but that doesn't mean that the woman in your life should just
disappear when the times get tough. If your girlfriend is not supportive
of you emotionally through difficult times and only stands by you when
things are going good, she's not the one you should be walking down the
aisle with.
3. She displays psychotic behaviors
A
woman who breeds chaos, misunderstanding and insanity might not be the
best person to swear your undying loyalty to. If she displays severe
psychological problems now, imagine what kind of influence her crazy and
irrational behaviors will have on your future. Marrying a woman like
this will most likely ruin your life and your perception of women
forever.
4. She's too clingy
If
your girlfriend can’t go anywhere or do anything without you, calls you
twenty times a day and destroys any chance of you missing her because
because the two of you are never apart, she’s going to make a bad wife.
5. She has nothing going on for herself
You
should want to marry a woman who has goals and brings something better
to your life, not one who is up to her neck in debt, has no income,
displays unpredictable behaviors and has tried numerous, short-lived
career paths yet never knows what she wants in life. This type of fickle
lifestyle could derail your own life plan as well.
6. She's controlling
If
your girlfriend controls all of your conversations, constantly forces
you into agreeing with her and acts as an overbearing, emotional bully,
it’ll only get worse after you say "I do."
7. She's already cheated on you
Do
you honestly believe that a woman is marriage material if she has been
unfaithful to you while you were dating? Yes, a person can always change
and learn from their mistakes; however, a cheating girlfriend will more
than likely continue to be unfaithful after marriage.
8. Her libido doesn't match yours
Another
sign that she'll make a bad wife is if her libido differs wildly from
yours. The way you relate to each other in the bedroom has a big
influence on whether the two of you will stay together after wedding
vows are exchanged, so it’s best to work this out before you walk down
the aisle.
9. She's extremely jealous
Although
a little bit of jealousy is essential for a healthy relationship,
extreme jealousy arises in a relationship because of high levels of
insecurity. If your girlfriend is jealous of every girl who comes near
you, refuses to accept that you have female friends and feels threatened
when you discuss your previous relationships, putting a ring on her
finger is not going to make her more secure.
10. She can't admit when she's wrong
If
she always seems to have the upper hand in arguments, refuses to admit
her faults or even treat you as an equal, she's not the marrying kind.
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