My Wife Just Made Some Shocking Confessions That Killed My Love For Her!

We all have at some point in our lives, done terrible things we are not proud of. Be it sleeping around, dating married men, having abortions. And sincerely, I've met ladies that did all these things, then when God somehow blessed them with a good man who really wants to marry them, these ladies did the worst thing imaginable - keep secrets about their ugly past hidden from their men.
Then along the line, something happens and their cans of dirty worms get knocked over and their evil deeds are exposed!

Please read Mikel's truly hurting story and let's read what you would do if you were in his shoes. Would you advise a woman/man with an ugly past to tell his/her future partner everything about her past before they walk the aisle?
Mikel shared his sad story online:

I am very ashamed of myself with what I have to say. But please I need your help. I have been married for the past 3 years now with no child. In the first year of our marriage, my wife was pregnant before I left for the UK and after about 6 months, she lost the pregnancy. Ever since then, we have been busy looking up to the face of God and hoping for God to help us with another pregnancy.

Well according to my wife, the guilt of her past before our marriage made her to confess to me
that she had an affair when we were dating and after I had already proposed to marry her. She also confessed that she got pregnant for another man a year before our marriage which she aborted. In the same vein she also confessed that she went to see one of her man friends two weeks before our marriage.

She also told me that the reason why she is feeling guilty is because she believes that her bad past and the way she treated me before we got married was part of the things affecting her now.

After all these dirty confessions, I still found it in my heart to forgive her and move on, despite all what she has done before our marriage. I couldn’t end the marriage because of the fear of divorce and for the fact that my mother really loves her as my wife.

I have tried not to remember her past ever since the day she confessed them to me. But for how long can I keep these? It always flashes back to my memory whenever I see her. I loved her so much, but she betrayed my trust before we got married and now I am finding it difficult to get it off my mind. That thing that made me love and marry her is gone in me. I have been forcing myself to love her and see if I can let go of the past. But thing are not as easy as I thought.

Please my people, I need your help. I have tried to forget about the past, but it keeps disturbing me.

Meanwhile, thanks guys for your patience during the last three days I was MIA. There was a change of routine at my day job and I had to readjust. I'm cool now. Thanks.